One day a man came to my kalyve and told me that he was very worried because he was not of the same mind with his wife. I saw, however, that there was nothing serious between them. He just had a few rough edges, his wife had a few others, and they couldn’t deal with one another. They needed a little sanding. Take two planks of wood before sanding them. One has a knot here, the other has a knot there; if you try to join the planks there is an empty space left between them. If, however, you sand one a little here and the other a little there, using the same tool, they join perfectly. [1] Read more →
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Relationships with Relatives and Friends
—Geronta, a certain woman asked what to do with her two cousins who have been freeloading off her for years.
—What does she want? To write a new Gospel now? God asks of her to help them and He will do whatever helps their souls.
—Geronta, when there is a misunderstanding between relatives, should someone say something to help the situation?
—Yes, something should be said to help because silence may do harm. If they misunderstand your intentions you should go to them again and say, “Forgive me for worrying you;” from then on leave them alone and pray for them. Read more →